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Fun in Boulder September 19, 2008

Filed under: Ecuador, Personal — Sweet Mary K. @ 1:24 pm
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Jesse and I are spending two full days in Boulder, CO for our ACTion:Ecuador College Tour, and so far we are having the best time!

HISTORY: We’ve been to Boulder before, in January 2007, during our first trip together as a couple and my first time to Denver to meet his good friend Dan and his wife Isa. We came up to Boulder for a day trip and spent the whole day doing touristy things:

We visited the Celestial Seasonings Tea Factory
We visited the Celestial Seasonings Tea Factory

and the Leaning Tree Art Museum
and the Leaning Tree Art Museum

We also visited this Meadery, which was really fun although we have no photos of it, and we met this really strange couple. They must have been twice our age, but they were really awkward together and I just remember feeling really weirded out by them… They must have been a new couple, but I really don’t think they were right for each other. Maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think Jesse and I were ever that awkward around each other, especially not when we were with strangers. hmm…

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And, of course, we went to a brewery (we are in Boulder, after all) and sampled all the beers... I got a little tired :)

Ok, funny little tid-bit, I’m wearing that same white sweater right now… I’m a clothes saver people!!!

So, YESTERDAY was the 18th and we, of course, worked. We went and talked with CU at Boulder about the ACTion Project and if you’d like to read more about that visit, click here. After work, we went over to downtown boulder and explored the Pearl Street Mall, very cool walking street with little shops along the way. I asked one female outfitters store if they sold the WhizFreedom, and of course they did not. (But, it’s ok, because I have MINE!!! YaY)

Then we found this little thrift store, so we decided to check it out. They were selling used costumes for Halloween, a lot of cool, vintage, white dresses… long story short, Jesse went next door to get a drink and wait for me, I took 4 dresses into the fitting room, called my mom, and bought a dress for $38.94, which could very well be my wedding dress! Oh my dear god!!! I can’t believe that happened!

WoW

So, after dinner, we went to see a live recording of etown! That was just amazing! I had no idea they were based here in Boulder, and we just happened to walk by and see that there just happened to be a live taping that night!!! Oh, and we walked in looking for seats and were directed up, and another staff member said, “wait, do you mind the front row?” and we were like, “uh, of course not!!!” So we were up close and personal with the guests, which I’ll talk about later, because we have to get out on the town!

xoxo,

Mary K

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Grad School September 17, 2008

So, I think everyone knows I’ve been talking about going to grad school for about 9 months now. I just wanted to say that, YES, I’ve decided to go.

My life is so busy and I’m all scheduled out until the fall of 2011- I’m not kidding- so hopefully I’ll be able to start during the summer of 2010 and work some of the DAT projects into my degree, or if not, I’ll definitly work around them.

Ok, just wanted to pronounce that to the world to hold me accountable and push me forward on this journey. It’s really exciting, and I have a million questions, so if you’ve been there, I’m open for all the advice I can get.

Oh, maybe I should add, my degree will be in International Business and Non-Profit Theatre Management. :) Basically, I’m getting a degree in Dramatic Adventure! :)

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Blogging September 17, 2008

Filed under: Personal — Sweet Mary K. @ 11:51 am
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The funny thing about blogging is, when you really start to get into it you just want to blog all the time.

I spend so much time each day formulating blogs in my mind. Here are some of the things I thought about blogging today:

1. My friend and I spoke on the phone for a little bit about another friend of ours who we think is in a little bit of an abusive relationship. Now, we’re not talking physical or sexual or I would go in and grab her up in the night, but more of a verbal thing, which can be just as bad. We’re not totally sure if this is even true, I just spent one evening with them when I started to feel like maybe it wasn’t the most healthy situation. Anyway, I thought to blog about this.

2. My obsession with “Roswell”, a tv show from 1999-2002. I think about blogging about this everyday, as I really am obsessed with it. I don’t know why that’s the case, which I guess is why I haven’t written about it, so every day I reformat a blog in my mind talking about it.

Everyday my reasoning is totally different. Recently I’ve had mixed feelings about it, because my favorite character, “Michael”, played by Brendan Fehr, is not living up to the image I had of him during the show. He’s the “bad boy” type in the show and in the end really, well, grew up, I felt, and it was so hot and wonderful, but then I started googling all the characters and found out that he’s really a boy’s man and not a man’s man (meaning, he’s like a kid, basically) and it really shook me. (This is so not a serious issue, even though I feel it’s coming across that way.) Now I just don’t know what to think… however, I am catching up on every episode of CSI Miami from 2005 and 2006 when he was a regular, and I’ll be looking out for his new show, Samurai Girl, which I think is on ABC Family.

Maybe the issue is that I know he doesn’t take jobs as characters he doesn’t like, he’s a little conservative so I think he wouldn’t want to be on Law and Order or any of those shows where they need new actors all the time to play different parts. Anyway, if he WAS going to be on L&O I would totally get my ass back into extra work for a chance to work a day with him. See what I mean!?!? I have totally mixed feelings. On one hand I’m like- be the bad guy again, be the guy that makes out with the girl and gets her in trouble because you’re just so bad it’s good, and on the other hand I’m like watching all the shows where he’s plain jane!

Oh my gosh, also, every job I could find of his before Roswell, he played a bad guy. It’s like after that show he grew a conscience or dried up or something… UH, I don’t know. But, that’s where I am with that… totally conflicted!

3. And don’t get me started today on the election. I just hope people say AWAKE and VOTE!!

4. Also, a big part of my blogging time is spent searching for relevant images for the post. Hope you enjoy my hard work. :)

So, those are a few rants for the morning. It’s only 10 am where I am in Denver today, so there might be another blog coming.

Stay tuned…

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“whatever” September 16, 2008

Filed under: Junk Rabbit, Personal — datheatre @ 10:21 pm
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This is Junk Rabbit’s opening piece. I hope you enjoy!

A tribute to Liam Lynch’s “whatever” by Daniel Sauve.

Special thanks to Liam Lynch for writing this amazing song!

Be sure to visit http://www.liamlynch.net & check out his podcasts.

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Happy Birthday! September 16, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — datheatre @ 9:24 pm

Today is Jesse’s birthday and we’ve been up since 4:30 a.m. this morning, traveled to Denver and gained 2 hours, and will be going out to a pub with our friends, Dan and Isa Sauve, who are hosting us here in Denver.

Photo Blast from our Past!  November 2006

Photo Blast from our Past! November 2006

A LONG day for your birthday! :) But, you know Jesse, he’s loving every minute of it!

It’s so inspiring the way he lives his life, so happy all the time- I really don’t think I’ve seen him upset more than 10 times in the 2+ years we’ve known eachother, and probably at least half of those times he was sick! It makes it fun and easy to love him!

Ok, enough with the gushy stuff.

He’s spending the day with his very good friend (I would say “best”, but he has a few “best friends”) Dan- hosting us- and they are creating an awesome video podcast! It is called “Junk Rabbit” and it will be on BlipTV and itunes soon :) .

Here’s the image for the Podcast:

Junk Rabbit

Junk Rabbit

The first video, “whatever”, will be the next blog post.

Great way to spend your birthday, good times with good friends

We’re in Denver for the start of Dramatic Adventure’s College Tour. Check out the Tour Schedule and Contact Me if you want to meet up somewhere along the way! (The Tour will be updated as November gets more structured, so keep checking it.)

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Life today, Sep 15th September 15, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — datheatre @ 3:57 pm

I haven’t titled this blog yet because I don’t know what I’m writing about exactly. Usually I come in because I need to write something, I want to make an update or get something off my chest, but today I just don’t know…

It has named itself, 179. I’m not going to leave it like that, of course, but what does that mean? It’s not the number of posts by far! hmm, I don’t know why it chose that number…

Jesse, tomorrow's birthday boy

Jesse, tomorrow's birthday boy

Tomorrow’s Jesse’s birthday. I love birthdays and I believe people should be spoiled rotten on their birthday! Is that because I want to be spoiled rotten on MY birthday? Maybe- but I also spoil others, so I think it works out.

Mom, good at birthdays

Mom, good at birthdays

My mom has always been great at birthdays. I think it’s because her parents are post-Christmas babies (both of them on the 29th) and they always made a big deal about birthdays. So now, she makes a big deal about birthdays, which is great, because I too am a post- Christmas baby (Dec. 30th). She always makes me feel really special on my birthday and that’s something I try to do for other people now, like my sweet Jesse.

Liz... basically just the best...

Liz... basically just the best...

Liz though, my sister, she’s the best at birthdays! Well, gift giving in general, she’s the best I know. It must be something in her that was in her before she got to Earth, because she’s just amazing at it. Always thinks really hard about the person, things she and the giftee have in common, and it makes the giftee feel like they are special to her, and that means a lot because when you’re on her good list, you feel like you’re part of the cool crowd.

The only problem is it causes a huge complex for me about what to get her, especially when I was in Ecuador this year and she and Ari went to Mexico a few years ago… at least I can normally call… but anyway, what do you get the person who will get you a 10 times better gift next holiday? It’s stressful.

Why does it turn into that? Stress? Why can’t it just be fun and exciting to shop for gifts for people? It’s not like Liz, or anyone for that matter (except one person and he just can’t be helped), has given me grief about not getting them “the right” present.

SUBJECT CHANGE

Ok, I was just looking at wedding things so now my mind has totally wandered again. I’m just all over the place today, and now I should go change the laundry, or I’ll be all over town naked as a jinny bird!

Aye ya ya, life, it’s so interesting to me today.

Oh, PS, I’m getting ready to help my mom with this really cool project, I hope everyone’s excited for the surprise (coming in October- chill, it’s not THAT far away!)

xoxo

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sigh… Sarah, Sarah, Sarah September 9, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — datheatre @ 12:45 am
because I'd rather think about Joe Jonas then this craziness!

because I'd rather think about Joe Jonas than this CRAZINESS!

Without going into too much crazy detail, I just wanted to put a little info out there about a conversation I had with someone on facebook about Sarah Palin. I feel this is an issue that will be coming up for many women and I sincerely hope that they will RESEARCH this woman and GET INFORMED before doing anything rash, like thinking about putting her anywhere close to representing our country.

Here is the discussion post from a new friend, Kayla:

So, a friend of mine sent me a message on my wall about how I shouldn’t be so quick to tear down Sarah Palin. She pointed out that for years, Republicans have been picking people as their VP (and heck even presidents!) who were “less than desirable” from my liberal point of view. I responded back by saying that by “coddling” Sarah Palin, merely because she’s a woman, goes against everything feminist in my body. Also, I said that the fact that she is a woman and her policies are those which hurt other women, makes it all the more difficult for me to stand beside her. Now, I realize that I’m probably preaching to the converted here, but what is your take? She brought up some interesting points with regard to women tearing down other women. Is that what we’re doing here? I don’t think so. But I do fully admit that JUST BECAUSE SARAH PALIN IS A WOMAN, doesn’t mean that I support her. Should I?

This is how I replied. I hope it helps other women to make an effort to get informed, just as I have, on the nature of the woman, Sarah Palin.

You’re right- and this is probably all just going out to the converted- but just in case it’s not, let me add my perspective.

The Republicans are hoping for this reaction exactly- she’s a woman, which does represent some change for our country.

That’s when we need to ask, why are we supporting Obama? Because he’s a good looking black man and we think the White House could use a little African style? NO! We’re voting for him because he believes what we believe, because we want him to represent our country to the rest of the world.

Now, people have said that WHOEVER McCain’s VP is will be half a heart beat away from the presidency and that’s probably true. Palin’s beliefs are the farthest thing possible from my own and I would really be afraid for our country if she got within smelling distance of that oval office.

I would LOVE there to be a woman VP or President- but not at the expense of my beliefs.

It’s not “women tearing down other women” to say-
“I want to have power over my body”
“I believe that gays should have the right to marry”
“I think the government needs to step in and set up ways for humans to curve their contribution to what’s happening on our planet, we should take responsibility for our footprint and take steps toward reversing it”

That doesn’t mean I HATE Sarah Palin, it means I don’t agree with what she stands for.

I can totally understand that feeling and I’m sure that many women -especially those who aren’t informed- are feeling that way. Of-course, the bashing is probably not that great, but calling her out on her politics, and leaving her crazy family life out of it, is just being an informed American.

I also wanted to add, I think it’s great that McCain served our country and it’s so wonderful that he was able to survive being a POW, but (I believe it was Bill Richardson who said at the DNC) it does not mean we have to vote for him to be our president

I feel the same way about Palin. It’s wonderful that the Republican party has invited it’s first woman to run on their ticket, but just because she’s a women doesn’t mean we have to vote for her.


I commend you, Karla, for putting this discussion out here and I hope it helps other women to start thinking about it too. :)

As I’ve said already, I hope that women will do the RESEARCH and GET INFORMED for themselves. Palin’s family life is really none of our business, not when her political track record is doing enough talking. I feel really bad for her 17-year-old daughter, mainly because she did what millions of normal teenagers do and, unlike millions of normal teenagers, she was never taught what a condom is and how to use it to protect herself against disease and pregnancy… but that’s none of my business.

What IS my business is that this candidate wants there to be no sex education in schools at all and so when MY daughter is 17 and after her father and I have taught her all about sex and how to protect herself, there might be a 17-year-old boy at her school who has never been exposed to such “craziness” as “birth control” and could possibly pressure her into disobeying her parents, as so many kids do, and could get her pregnant or- God forbid- give her a disease that he got from another girl who also WASN’T in his MISSING sex-ed class.

*sigh* DEEP BREATH.

So, please get informed on the issues, there’s bound to be one of Palin’s beliefs that you disagree with- and if not, let me just remind you that after her “legacy” in her small Alaskan town of Wasilla- the HUGE sports complex for a town of 7,000 residents-, there is a 15 million dollar debt… yeah, she’s probably NOT going to lower taxes or make ANY effort to give rebates to the poor. But, man, she sure knows how to spend money! :) Got to give her that!

More Info from those in the Know

And don’t even get me started on the book banning! I know, it’s “come to our attention” that there was never a specific list, yada, yada, yada, BUT- the idea that she would simply “inquire” about the “proceedure” to go about makes me wonder what she’d “inquire” about on her first day of office… banning all other religions perhaps? UGH… ok, I said I wouldn’t get started and here I go.

PLEASE INFORM YOURSELVES! Don’t just “VOTE FOR WOMEN” without knowing the facts!

DISCLAIMER:

I am a HUGE Hillary supporter and I’m very sad she will not be our president. Obama is where I will be putting my attention because we have similar beliefs and I believe he can do what the President is meant to do- represent AMERICA to the rest of the world

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MY BACK!! September 6, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — datheatre @ 3:30 pm

Oh my gosh, my back hurts so bad I just want to cry!

My back hurts, ok, I guess that’s clear, and I don’t know what could have possibly have happened to it since YESTERDAY! I haven’t done anything out of the ordinary, but still it has started hurting.

This morning it woke me up, and it was crappy, but not as bad as it is now. I mean, it’s REALLY hurting!

I put a pack of frozen vegtables on it, advice from yahoo’s health site, and I’m laying on the ground to keep it on. Jesse thinks it’s the combination of working at my dad’s house a few weeks ago and then working from the bed instead of my desk- or else I would lay in bed.

UGH, I need someone to take care of me, I feel like a helpless little baby and it really sucks because I have a lot I want to do today including work on a tap routine to The Jonas Brothers “Love Bug”- many more details on that to come, it’s going to be adorable!

Anyway, I don’t want to spoil it, I just want to get better.

Any advice on how to sooth the pain in my back? I’m all ears!

UPDATE:

I’m feeling much, much, MUCH better now.

Hope you weren’t too concerned :) Thanks to everyone who called to make sure I was ok.

xoxo

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FOR SALE September 3, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — datheatre @ 8:36 pm

Here are some photos of the beautiful wedding dress I’m selling along with two flower girl dresses:

Sorry for the sideways photos. The last 5 are the flowergirl dresses.

Make me an offer, they must go!!

MaryKRedington@aol.com or 917.371.9594

They must go!!

 

Hamlet September 3, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — datheatre @ 4:55 am

Ok, before I forget, because I’ve been really busy and I haven’t written about Hamlet yet- let me get right to it!

Jesse, Drew and I went on Sunday to see the last night of Gorilla Rep’s production of Hamlet. Let me first say that anything negative that I’ll say really doesn’t matter because of the total awesomeness (wow, I thought surely that word would have come up as NOT A WORD in the spell check) of the whole idea that is Gorilla Rep.

They’re in the park, with the Cloisters as a background for Hamlet- totally cool- and they and just there, living the language of our dear friend Willy Shake! The rawness of it is truly something that everyone should witness… the Actor who played Hamlet, however, is NOT recommended.

Let me note- I am NOT a critic- in fact, any criticisms I have could really be laughed at by the people to whom they are directed, because I really don’t know what I’m talking about at all, but I do know that the language in Shakespeare’s pieces are really difficult and the audience appreciation really all depends on the actors abilities to communicate in a way WE can understand with their other “actor tools”.

Have you ever pressed fast forward on the VCR? Maybe you didn’t like the scene, or you were skipping ahead to show someone something you liked? Have you ever had an actor reach out of a film and press the fast forward button for you? And you were left thinking… “I like that part, I missed something, what’s going on, why is someone leaning out of my TV, pass the acid.” That’s how it felt watching this guys Hamlet. Like he was fast forwarding through the parts he didn’t like and then when he ran out of breath or got to a part he liked he slowed down.

In his defense, which I can’t really argue because I didn’t talk to him or really know anything about him at all, but none the less… In his defense, it was the last night of the show. So many factors could have played into the fact that he was doing a speed-through. (That’s what we actors call it when you say all the lines as fast as you can in order to work on something other than the acting of it, such as memorizing the lines.) Another actor, a female who played many parts, seemed to have lost her voice. It is a really demanding situation for your body to communicate in a space like that.

Anyway, I didn’t like the guy who played Hamlet- also, there was no chemistry between he and Ophelia… are they not supposed to have chemistry? And I don’t really remember the “get thee to a nunnery” scene, so maybe it was good… but I can’t remember either way.

Ok- enough negative for now, let me talk about some things I did like. My favorite characters in order…

1. I think my favorite was the man who played the Player King, maybe the fact that he was a courtroom lawyer- turned actor, it’s inspiring when people go for their dreams.

2. Gravedigger/Ghost- he was good as the ghost, but that wouldn’t have put him so high, and the gravedigger scene is just the best scene in the play, so maybe he had it easy, but he was fantastic.

3. Horatio- mostly because he looked like Jeff Faulkner circa sophomore year, think “Johnny Angel” in Grease years, when I would have probably made out with him accept that I was busy with Aaron… I’m digressing. So, yeah, he was enjoyable to watch.

4. The Player Queen- maybe I liked the players so much because of the style they used to portray that section. It was really fun and she was a grown up being playful, I always like that!

5. Claudius- his jacket was freaking awesome, and I mostly liked him because I noticed him afterward holding a flashlight and I was startled that it was him and I said, “oh, thank you” and he, who had been very loud and big throughout the whole show, said sweetly, “thanks for coming”. It was really sweet.

Anyway, that’s my top 5. And, I was really interested to learn, through my own investigation, that Ophelia was married to the director. I don’t think it’s cool if that’s the reason she’s getting cast in this things because she wasn’t THAT good (the “going crazy” part wasn’t bad though), but it’s nice to see married people running theatre companies because that’s what Jesse and I will be next year :)

I know this company is really respected, and what they’re doing is really cool, but some of it was just not enjoyable. Their efforts seem to go along with my belief, that theatre should be for the people. I feel like I would have had to have a degree in the background of this play to have enjoyed it, because it was really fast and not easy to understand. If someone like me, versed in theatre, but without a degree in Shakespeare, felt it was too intense, how would it seem to someone who had no background in this play? Is it meant to keep those sorts of people out? Or, maybe I just came on a bad night? Maybe everyone had had enough and wanted to get to the cast party? That could have been as well.

Small disclaimer:

I do want to say, if anyone googles gorilla rep and finds this: I’m not intending to insult anyone. I’m simply commenting on my experience and learning from it in order to grow as an artist and a human being. Please don’t feel insulted, and take only what you’d like to take and leave the rest. :)

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